Rania Al-Baz is a presenter on Channel 1, Saudi TV. She was brutally attacked by her husband, Muhammad Al-Fallatta, an out-of-work singer. According to Rania’s mother, Al-Fallatta was angered that his wife answered the telephone and proceeded to beat her. “Rania told me that when he saw her on the telephone he looked angry and was coming to hit her like he had done so many times before”. “She begged him not to hit her. His reply was: ‘Hit you? I’m not going to hit you, I am going to kill you.’
I don't want to be graphic but, according to Rania and her maid, Al-Fallatta knocked Rania down to her knees, then sat on her thighs so that her legs were bent behind her. He then began choking her while punching her in the face, nose, eyes and mouth. He then grabbed a handful of her hair and started banging her head on the floor. When she got up to run, he grabbed her from behind and began smashing her face on the wall until she lost consciousness.
Rania- Before and After
He left her unconscious for a couple of hours while he showered and changed then bundled her up in a sheet and put her in the family van. When Rania regained consciousness, she found herself in the van and thought he was taking her to Obhur (beach) to bury her. When he heard her moaning and trying to speak, he panicked and pulled into Bugshan Hospital. He dumped her at the emergency room entrance at 2:30 in the morning, telling nurses that she was the victim of a car accident and was dead. He then left quickly saying he was going to bring other victims of the accident.
Doctors said she sustained 13 fractures to her face and stood a 70% chance of a full recovery but needed numerous operations. In one operation, cartilage was removed from her ear and transplanted into her nose to replace the cartilage that was shattered there during the attack. A nail was drilled into her skull through her nose to keep it open and allow her to breathe.
Reading about incidents such as this, makes my blood boil. I don't want to sound all feminist but for those who don't know, this is a very big problem in Saudi Arabia which had never been discussed openly in the Kingdom until now. Since Rania has come out publicly with her story initiatives are now taken to solve the problem. I don't expect much from the Saudi government though.
Muhammad Al-Fallatta
By the end of April Al-Fallatta, who was charged with attempted murder, surrendered to the police. But the charge was later reduced to wife 'battery'.
Rania says that she didn't want to leave her husband because she was afraid she wouldn't get custody of her children if she got divorced. (In Islam, children are in father's custody but if the circumstances are different, the mother might keep her children).
Rania said she stayed with her husband despite his history of violence because she was afraid she would be denied custody of her two boys. When she attempted to leave him, he abducted the children and kept her from seeing them for two months.
Al-Fallatta was sentenced to six months in jail and 300 lashes (I know it sounds barbaric, but it is according to Shariah Law). He was later released from jail, serving only half of his sentence, after Rania pardoned him (In my opinion she shouldn't have done that). He refused to grant Rania a divorce which made the case a bit complicated because the Judge would now have to revoke the marriage contract.
Later, Rania decided to return to her husband. He said he beat his wife for 'specific reasons' which he didn't want to make public. Al-Fallatta was confident about his reunion with Rania. He said that the next time he would punish his wife by marrying another woman (What a jerk!).
Al-Fallatta didn't show up at the hearing thrice. He was brought in by an official of the area where he lived. Last week the judge ordered him to divorce Rania and her divorce will be finalised after Hajj.
I don't want people to use this story as another excuse that Islam isn't perfect. Islam is a very clear-cut religion and has answers for every problem. The problem arises when people inject their customs and traditions in Islam.
16 comments:
i'm a li'l confused. did this 'reunion' happen after the guy almost killed his wife?
~R
Sorry for the confusion. No, it didn't. It was about to happen but then it didn't. Thanks for pointing that out.
Thirty-five years ago the same story could have been written about a woman in America. The laws and the courts were changed by feminist organization, but this is the end result of almost 200 years of struggle. Without the law on her side, a woman who must choose between her safety and her children is in a very difficult position.
subhanallah, this stuff pisses the hell outta me. interesting comment by anonymous though. hmmm really? this behavior is in no way in accordance to islam and i pray that these dumbbutt guys are punished by allah.
What makes me not feel sorry for this woman is that she caved! She attempted to reconcile, then she allowed him half his sentence, etc. She brought the story to light, she should have seen it through.
Hello and Assalamualkuim to you all
I would like to say somethiing to that man who have no respect to beautiful lady who didnt anything wrong.. To be honestly. That man(her soon to be ex husband) r stupid,bastard n have some plm inside his brain.. All I want him to stay in jail for est his life that what he did it to Rania and his son whom he hit him so hard.. That's so unacceptable..Their kids have to stay with their mom bec if they will staying with their dad.. Their dad will hit them for something reason.. I dont like it.. So I wish him to stay in jail for life.. Allah will punish on him ...I really hate him.. He is so stupid n wish him to go to hell...( im sorry to say some harsh words bec I was so angry at him)...Rania should call the police,no matter if he did it to her again.. If she calls,so the police willt aking him to the jail or give him some warning..to make his brain n eyes open n learn his lesson!!
Hello Anonymous (or Anonymous'). I know this is a shocking story and it just fills one up with rage. I was really angry too when I read the story too (like yourself). Sadly, this is very common in Saudi Arabia and the other Arab countries.
All we can hope for is that these kind of men get punished for these intolerable acts.
I have to agree with the previous comment, the fact that she gave in to her husband after being so brutally beaten is a little mindboggling. I can understand her fear of losing her children, but i'm sure she would have won custody of them considering the circumstances, and keeping in account the fact that her story was publicised, she most likely would have won. But what gets me heated the most is the fact that his sentence was so minor...what does that say about their justice system, that you can callously beat another human being close to death, and the punishment is a meager 6 months...not good enough
it's not just about her husband. Her choices will also affect her children, her parents, her sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, etc. The extended family in these countries is just as impacted by the decision of a single individual, as the individual him or herself. She would have "brought shame" upon her children and extended family for generations to come, while her husband's family would be completely mollified at the "ghastly" behaviours of their soon to be ex-daughter in law.
Such is life in cultures where communities are more than a nuclear family.
She would also lose custody of her children, since custody remains with the father.
From what I read today in the Guardian (Oct. 15, 2005), Rania is now divorced, has custody of her children, and is in Paris. I'd say she faced one heck of a lot in order to make that happen.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/saudi/story/0,11599,1585123,00.html
Yes you are right, this will affect her extended family as well but it shouldn't. That's life!
I see people have started peeping into my blog, i guess i'll write something soon.....
Salamaleikoum, Im Wasim Khan from Paris(france), in paris,i've been the first person to buy Rania Al-baz book , i really loved her book, i red it more then 3 times, i really admire rania and her courage.However, for me, Rania Al-Baz is the moste beatifull woman of this wordl , because she respect islam and is a good muslim.May Allah protect her
Wasim Khan
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